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Podcast: Compassionate Self-Discipline

March 11, 2015 | 2 Comments »

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Giving Back to the Soil: A Teaching on Personal Sustainability

March 10, 2015 | No Comments »


The soil never lies, just like our bodies never lie.  Nature offers an intricate natural feedback system to keep life in balance and thrive, but we often fail to listen to the outer or inner landscape. Through conventional farming and unconscious land use/urban design, we have learned the hard way that when we impose our will on nature without “giving back to the soil,” we are left with soil depletion, desertification, and land degradation.  Topsoil – the magical layer of earth appropriate for growing our food and medicine – is not a resource to take casually.  It takes 600 to 700 years to fully grow back topsoil.

How we do anything is how we do everything. In the same way that we impose our will on the natural world, egocentricity or separate self imposes its will on us. The part of us that is attached to agenda and is too often focused on product over process, is more than willing to use our physical bodies and life force in ways that diminishes and deplete our vitality and well-being. We have been conditioned to compromise authenticity and truth in order to meet goals, standards, and produce.

To honor and respect nature – inside and out – means to work with, rather than against nature in all matters. It means to see every endeavor as opportunity to bring a compassionate and wise process to life rather than focusing on the product. One becomes a steward of the land by practicing deep listening, appropriate response, and working with rather than against nature. This is how one cultivates healthy soil that can grow vibrant nourishing food and medicine sustainably for years to come.  An earth steward commits to a framework and practice that “give back to the soil.” 

Meditation practice teaches us how to instill this framework and practice in ourselves. We learn, through meditation, that when we are willing to focus on process and put compassionate awareness in charge of our lives, rather than default to the product-focused conditioning that pervades our society, we can cultivate the soil within for sustained well-being and compassion to thrive. Meditation practice teaches us how to commit to personal sustainability and how to continually give back to the soil that is who we are.

The soil within is the ground of our well-being. It is the ground from which all that we do grows from and from which our deepest intentions are expressed. In the garden, we take care of the soil by paying attention. That is the primary job of the gardener or earth steward and it is also the primary job of the meditation practitioner, to be a steward of well-being. When we pay attention, moment by moment, to the subtle feedback of our emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual experience, we learn how to respond to life appropriately and work with, rather than against nature, at the most subtle level. Meditation teaches us that awareness is the most subtle form of love… And when we pay attention, moment by moment and maintain awareness, we feel loved. We feel cared for. We feel seen, heard, and met when we receive the gift of our own attention, moment by moment.

Consider, what are some ways that you give back to the soil that is who you are?  In what ways do you have an adversarial nature with yourself and avoid or diminish the messages from your natural system? In what ways to you work against, rather than with, your nature? What is one way today in which you can “give back to the soil?” 

This blog is written in honor of the summer retreat, Giving Back to the Earth: A Pilgrimage and Wilderness retreat in the Smokey Mountains, July 27-August 5, to be led by Deborah Eden Tull and Lama Justin Wall.  This retreat will be an integration of meditation practice and sustainability, an opportunity to heal our relationship with the planet and with all beings, while backpacking along a beautiful mountain trail in the deep stillness of the wilderness.

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Fearless Love: Getting Out of the Way of Intimacy

December 14, 2014 | No Comments »

W10850153_744121482330740_461205275044707044_ne all want intimacy… deep, honest, juicy, grounded, courageous connection with another human being. Perhaps we crave intimacy so deeply because it’s actually the most natural state for us to be in… safe, connected, unguarded, and fully alive. When we meditate, we remember that intimacy is what’s here when we STOP doing everything else. It’s not that it takes great effort. But most of us spend so much time distracted from real intimacy by our busy minds – filled with story, drama, projection, expectation, self-consciousness, and reference to future/past – that we are not available for real connection. In fact, for most of us, our primary relationship is actually with the conditioned mind, and that relationship is a full-time job.

What if intimacy was as simple as seeing through some of the ways we get caught in the conditioned mind when it comes to relating – and learning to get out of our own way?

1. Fearless Love Begins With Loving Ourselves Fearlessly…The Pretty and The Not-So-Pretty

To love fearlessly is a revolutionary act. It requires us to relax into self-acceptance over constant self-improvement.  We spend so much time seeing ourselves through eyes of judgment, looking at what could be fixed or improved, afraid we might not measure up. We reward ourselves when we “make the grade” and berate ourselves when we don’t. All this needless activity keeps us busy and feeds the underlying myth that love is conditional… that parts of us are lovable and parts are not. Intimacy begins with our willingness to erase this myth and see through the eyes of love. We have to learn how to ‘be with” the pretty and not-so-pretty parts of ourselves without needing to do, fix, or change anything. Fearless love asks us to stop striving, let down our guard, and find out what is possible between two human beings. This begins by seeing ourselves through eyes of love.

2. Not Turning Away

It sounds easy enough, but if you’ve ever been in a relationship (or if you’ve ever just sat down on a meditation cushion) you know that when the messy stuff arises, a part of us wants to scream “Never mind, I’m out of here!” Most of us have habitual escape routes in place in our lives so that we can take the exit door whenever ego feels threatened. Fearless love requires a commitment to fearing less. It asks us to stay with both the expansions and contractions of love. This is how we learn to see fear for what it is and access authentic courage. Intimacy is not just about physical and emotional attraction. It is an opportunity to co-create a powerful container for shadows and past traumas to arise, to be healed. If we are willing to have the kind of relationship where we don’t have the back door open, where we can see the desire to escape as resistance to growth, we are well-positioned for success. We’re not just talking about healing here…We’re talking about letting our separate self dissolve to become participants in something much bigger and more magical… the shared field and mystery of love between two human beings. Isn’t this what we are made for?

3. Deep Listening Means Listening With Our Whole Body

We spend a LOT of time listening to our conditioned mind…me and my needs, my limiting stories, my little bubble….and may only come out from this bubble from time to time for real connection. There is nothing wrong with this, but it limits our capacity for authentic connection. The practice of deep listening is a beautiful and fierce way to dissolve this bubble. The listener has no agenda other than receptive listening… not trying to fix or change anything or even “help” the other, but allowing our beloved to feel seen and heard. Deep listening invites us to listen with every cell in our body. For the record, it doesn’t work if we are always the listener or always the one who listens. We have to be willing to take turns being open, vulnerable, seen, and supported… and being the non-judgmental witness. Deep listening teaches us how to create a solid container for intimacy – with our lover and with ourselves.

4. Risking It

Transparency is the art of belonging… to ourselves, to each other, to our world….right here, right now, exactly as we are. Reclaiming intimacy has everything to do with the willingness to be transparent with one another…to share ourselves with one another as we are, no more, no less, no shield needed, nowhere to hide. Consider that the mind of separation continually finds ways to makes us feel self-conscious, isolated, and other than. We live in a world with so many messages about what’s acceptable and what’s not. Every time we allow ourselves to be authentic and vulnerable with one another, the illusion of separation burns away. Transparency asks us to stop role playing (the good girlfriend, the hot lover, the strong man) and risk being ourselves.

5. Play

Fearless love is about allowing our shadows to be illuminated and trusting the healing process… but it’s vital that we don’t become process zombies. We’ve got to nourish ourselves with plenty of play, lightness, laughter, touch, passion, and adventure.  It is always to approach a spiritual journey with great sincerity over seriousness. If we can see the whole intimacy experience as a process of discovery, we can stay connected with the innocent, curious, child-like, explorer in us rather than the agenda-filled, serious adult, to get in the way.

A Personal story…

I first went out with my beloved after attending his conscious dance class, not as a date but as a “getting to know you.” He began telling me how unsatisfying the dating world had been. “I wish I could go on a first date,” he said, “and just name all of my faults, shortcomings, and limitations up front, so it was all out there and there was no fear.” I caught the cue and asked, “And what would you list? I’d like to hear.” And as he openly listed his self-perceived shortcomings and quirks, I softened, relaxed, and thought, “Wow, here’s a man who knows what real power is… vulnerability. Here’s a man who is not afraid to be honest. Here’s a man I could really love and bare myself with.” My heart melted, one thing led to the next,….and a soft, deep, sweet, passionate, radically honest partnership began.

As you digest this blog post, I encourage you to consider the ways you are living your life in the spirit of fearless loving… and the ways you get pulled away from intimacy by your conditioned mind. How might you support yourself in getting out of the way of intimacy?

Offered in Lovingkindness,

Deborah Eden Tull

Erotic Intelligence… Reflections on Sex and Spiritual Practice

April 12, 2014 | 2 Comments »

IMG_20130702_230751When I first arrived to the city of Los Angeles in 2007, after 7 years as a celibate Zen monk in a silent monastery, I did not foresee myself leading retreats and workshops about the dharma and sexuality. I suspect I was subtly under the spell of some of the same illusions that pervade our society, the notion that sexuality is somehow separate from other aspects of spiritual practice or human endeavor. This could not be further from the truth, yet it is my experience that many meditation and mindfulness circles do not address this topic fully.

The point of spiritual practice is to illuminate every corner and aspect of our lives with compassionate awareness… to acknowledge that there is no aspect of ourselves that is meant to be left out of the circle of wholeness and authenticity; yet in so many circles, and certainly Buddhist circles, there is a sex-spirit divide… a belief that sexuality is somehow so highly charged, dangerous, complex, and dramatic that it is possibly an impediment to real practice. As a result of this subtle message in so many of our spiritual traditions, sexuality and spirituality are often left separated.

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Compassionate Response in the Post-Fukushima World

November 26, 2013 | No Comments »

Reflections on Mindful Engagement for Thanksgiving

schedule_37_3864383660On March 11, 2011, the world was shaken when the Fukushima nuclear disaster hit Japan after a major earthquake. The possibility that unforeseen amounts of nuclear reactivity could be released into our oceans and atmosphere became a reality, and there was no turning back. Two and a half years later, we are left with vague information at best. We have heard devastating accounts of the amounts of radioactive material increasing globally and building up in our food chain and saddening details about the impact on marine life and our oceans…Yet it is hard to know what this actually means. Meanwhile, conventional media posts “business as usual.” The US has done nothing to address the issue of nuclear power, though numerous countries have closed down reactors and opted for nuclear phase-out.

When a disaster of this degree of severity occurs, we are initially jolted awake from our slumber and, for a split second, we drop into the reality of interdependence…open, receptive, and present to our shared vulnerability. We experience the fragility, uncertainty, and sense of powerlessness that comes with being a human being on a planet of delicate balance. We feel the pain, love, and truth of that reality deep in our bones. For a brief moment, we collectively acknowledge the preciousness of life on earth, the fragility of our global infrastructure, and the harm caused through unconsciousness.

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The Myth of “Not Enough Time” & The Art of Presence

March 7, 2013 | 1 Comment »


Not enough time to meditate…. Never-ending “to do” lists….Multi-tasking….Eating on the go.Rushing to get to yoga class….Our culture glorifies the collective stories of “not enough time” and “too much to do.” One day, far into the future, we will look back and reflect on our early 21st century ancestors with their impressive schedules and text messages, and we will say, “Grateful that humanity made it through that grand delusion. Thank God that we let go of that collective story and chose instead to embrace presence.”

The good news is that in order to free ourselves from “not enough time” we have to free ourselves from the story of “not enough.” “Not enough” is the world view of a passive consumer society. It is the conditioned filter that taints how we feel about ourselves, others, and our resources, blinding us from seeing our lives clearly and perpetuating dissatisfaction and a hunger for more, better, and different.

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Creating Sacred Altars for Grief

December 28, 2012 | No Comments »


This is a blog about grief, the end of the year, and authenticity.

This season I’ve been present to many layers of experience: joy, relaxation, doubt, playfulness, stillness, creative churning, time pressure, peace, and a great deal of grief. We grieve the people we miss who are no longer with us each holiday season. We grieve the passing of time and the reflection of dreams not yet met. We grieve the recognition of how quickly life moves. We grieve lost children, we grieve lost parents, we grieve losing beloved animals who have touched our lives, we grieve break ups, we grieve feeling helpless to help someone we love, we grieve violence in the world, we grieve self-limiting patterns we have not yet let go, and we grieve the impact of greed on our planet and its people.

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Resilience in the Rain

November 7, 2012 | No Comments »


The part of me that has strong weather preferences is surprised to acknowledge how much joy and elation the chilling winter weather is giving me. It reached 46 degrees today in Portland and was 39 degrees when I awoke… a shock for this Southern California transplant. While a conditioned voice had recently stated her concerns loudly, “I am not going to survive the long dreary winter!” (It is known to rain until July 1st in Portland), my authentic experience is qualitatively different. It seems that I have received a blast of energy that comes only from saying YES to what is.

Spiritual practice invites us to turn to our actual in-the-moment experience again and again, despite what we are being told in our heads, and requires us to ask, “IS THAT SO? When something outside our comfort zone comes our way, a limiting voice we are all familiar with says, “I don’t like this, I hate this, I can’t.” With practice, however, we learn to inquire as sincerely as we can into present moment reality and to say YES to the experience we are actually having, instead of assessing it from the perspective of the conditioned mind. Resistance strengthens the illusion of separation and isolation, while acceptance and resilience unlock the door to unconditional well-being. Resilience begins with saying YES to life exactly as it is.

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THE POWER OF RETREAT: Cultivating Practice That is Both Gentle and Fierce at the Same Time

July 20, 2012 | No Comments »


Contrary to popular belief, mindfulness is not a passive practice. The notion that compassion is soft and that meditation is inactive is a myth. Mindfulness requires a skillful balance between two vital energies: conscious engagement and relaxation (or letting go). It requires paying subtle attention to the moment in order to sense which energy is required at that time. In other words, meditation involves paying attention to our moment by moment experience in a relaxed, receptive, open, and attentive way. When we focus our attention on present moment experience, we are able to become aware of what pulls our attention away. We set aside our habitual doing and striving for a period of time in order to simply be in awareness… And as we notice the thoughts that pull us out of the moment, we actively choose to let go of the thoughts that habitually fill our minds and instead return our full and focused attention to the present moment.

Gently but fiercely, we let go of the conditioned reality the mind paints with its repetitive brush strokes, again and again, and return to our actual immediate experience. We acknowledge the power of our choice in every moment to either engage in the mind’s perceptions and stories about life OR to instead experience life in its actuality, free of the filter of the conditioned mind. We build our “letting go” muscles over time and thus develop resilience and equanimity.

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Receiving the Gift in Contradiction

May 19, 2012 | No Comments »

schedule_25_3553587030Years ago my dad did the astrological chart for our family. I have a Virgo sun and Scorpio moon… a propensity for service and a down-to-earth constitution on one hand and an appetite for fire, intensity, and the desire to get to what is underneath on the other hand. I contain both a calm quiet gentle introvert and an extrovert who can be boisterous in social settings. I love being with people and at other times I want nothing more than to climb up a tree in the forest where no one in the world can find me. The simplicity of fresh air and open sky has often compelled me to live in the countryside, and I also light up in the creative buzz and color (edginess) of city life.

Throughout my life I have learned to dance between the different poles inside of me, and this has helped me to honor the contradictions in the world at-large. I used to think the contradictions were a problem. My mind would create a standard for the “right way” I should be, the “right way” my life should look, and the “right way” life should happen… always held in contrast to a perceived “wrong way.” I would painfully, clumsily, and with great effort try to meet this standard, pushing the “wrong” parts of me aside in the process, and, as a result it seemed that I would continually fail.

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